My world is like plaster; crumbling under pressure from the blaster

Why is it that people will become automatically embarrassed over facts that are revealed about them by someone else?

They may be perfectly willing to tell others those facts themselves, they might even be about to.

But if it isn't coming straight from their lips then they don't like it.

Is it because they feel that they have possession over themselves? Perhaps they desire to be in control. Maybe they just feel betrayed.

But why?

It's because we create a façade amongst our little clique to ensure we are accepted. We mould it via the control of information.

Loose control, you loose the façade

Loose the façade and nobody will like you in any way at all, ever.

At least, that's what we think. We trick ourselves to believe it.

The reality of who we are conflicts with the social norms we have generated and so we convince ourselves that the reality of who we are is something nobody will like.